The Most Dangerous Lies Are the Ones You Tell Yourself
When people think about addiction, they often picture the obvious lies—the excuses you make to family, the stories you tell to employers, the promises you break to friends. But the most dangerous lies aren’t the ones told out loud. They’re the ones whispered inside your own head, the ones you start to believe because the truth hurts too much to face. In From Marching Band to the Glass Rose , Kristin Stanton candidly shares how self-deception paved her road from small-town innocence to the depths of addiction and prostitution. She didn’t wake up one day and decide to become a heroin addict, a crack user, or a sex worker. It happened gradually, one rationalization at a time. “I can quit whenever I want.” “I’m still in control.” “This isn’t who I really am.” Those lies worked—until they didn’t. Addiction’s Favorite Lie: “It’s Just One More Time” Kristin describes how every high came with a promise to stop tomorrow. But tomorrow never came. Addiction convinces you that you’re still i...