Why Victims of Narcissistic Abuse Often Stay Longer Than Others Understand
“Why didn’t they just leave?” It is one of the most common questions people ask when they learn that someone has spent years in an abusive relationship. From the outside, leaving can seem like the obvious answer. From inside the relationship, however, the decision is rarely that simple. Narcissistic abuse can gradually affect a person's confidence, judgment, relationships, and sense of reality. What begins as a relationship that appears loving or promising may slowly become a cycle of manipulation, emotional abuse, control, confusion, and reconciliation. For someone experiencing narcissistic abuse, staying does not necessarily mean they are weak or unaware. Often, it means they have been trying to survive a situation that has become increasingly difficult to understand and escape. The Relationship May Not Have Started With Abuse One reason people stay is that they remember the person their partner appeared to be in the beginning. A narcissistic relationship may include affection,...